Deep unhealed wounds (triggers) can keep us hostage to the manipulations of others. When we give others permission to pull us down, hold us back, doubt ourselves or dim our light - we hand over our power, as we start to identify with our weaknesses. Feeling ‘paralysed’, we hang onto the familiar and find difficulty in embracing the new. We miss opportunities to change or grow into abundance. We lose the ability to choose and make clear, rational decisions - and this can be a frightening place to live…