Surrendering what you can’t control is to not only liberate yourself, it also gives others an opportunity to do the same (what they do with that chance is up to them). Regularly becoming silent allows you to move along in waves of pure thoughts - and whenever you want - you can go to the bottom of the ocean of your own mind and become the form of silence… Pure silence brings clarity and courage, making the process of letting go, easier…

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7 Ways to let Adversity be the Wind in your Sail!…

At this time of intense uncertainty as the world spirals out of control - we are each challenged to change ourselves - but how do I as an individual not get pulled down by the undertow? How do I stay afloat in a cesspool of fear, hatred, anger and contempt, of stress and anxiety, despondency and depression? How do I not ‘lose it’ at the many broken systems that desperately need a spiritual injection? How do I cope with isolation and division while keeping abreast of current affairs? How do I not victimise myself or lash out at others in these times of unease? How do I accept situations that are out of my control - how do I let go? How do I survive and even thrive when life is set to wipe out my plans? How do I stay the course and keep looking forward with enthusiasm - and BE that light in this dark tunnel?…

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Did you know that to understand and to accept, that calm is a choice and that stress is a choice, can be just one wonderful way of taking back your power? One of the most important decisions we can make in our life is to choose our responses to stress, or anger, or anxiety… We live in the midst of a stress epidemic (it’s called the ‘silent killer’ for a reason) and nothing highlights this more than the lead-up to Christmas. Stress not only reduces kindness and productivity, since we can’t function effectively under duress, but it also impacts our clarity and judgement (people do some questionable things when stressed) then justify it to the hilt.

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